Restraining order Isn't working (URGENT)?

get a camera and video tape her . These type of people can only be delt with if you can substantiate to the police with tangible evidence that that person is breaking the law. If the PFA says she can't talk to your or your family then once you show to them the video then they will get on her case and hopefully she will mouth off and they can arrest her for disorderly conduct or harment. But keep in mind officers are only going to arrest her unless they think she might do some thing like attack someone. They probably wont arrest her if she is just "talk crap" to you . If she is cursing uncontrollably then get it on video and catch her in the act. It burns up when people like that think they can har people and get away with it by stopping when the police get there.